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A Look Back to a month after the funeral. Post created: 12/20/12 9:27 AM

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  5/17/24: I've debated on 'where' to start giving background to my own story so that any present posts I make will make more sense. I've decided to start here. A month out from her funeral...The hotlinks prove that though.  Warning, while the hotlinks themselves are pretty work safe, the SITE they are on is not. NSFW. Open at home or on your phone. See Welcome post for explanation as to why the posts are in that location.   (Words) Walking the Walk with a person who is walking THAT WALK.. - Depression Update: I am so glad I made this post. I promise you, I almost didn't push send. Here's just ONE of the many examples why I am glad I did....I've received more than a few emails, letters, texts, etc like this. So I DEFINITELY know publishing this was the right thing.. First of all, it is hard for me to even say that word. @ depression.  I've called it everything but that for the past 15 years as I walked that walk with the person.  So for me to call it wha...

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This is the place that I wish I would have been able to create on November,18 2012. That was the day that my wife died.  I was pretty young and as the title of the blog states, a Father of 3. I'll get all into that in a minute though.  I was just not in the proper headspace to create such a space so I used my EXISTING space on the Internet to give out my thoughts, feelings, etc in real time. My existing space was a hodge podge of Internet debauchery, mixed in with my own feelings about everything in Life.  It let TONS of people I knew personally, have a place to read my thoughts. I'm grateful for that place. I may still write posts there too, if you happen to stumble upon it.  I think it's time, a decade later, to put it all in one place. A place where one can read solely about my Widowerhood . In the other space, I provided pictures. Proof of my wife's death. Etc. My kids pictures are smattered about there. I'm not really sure I'll do that here. I might, for au...